How to approach a girl
Hi... I'm Brad...
It's really important to know how to attract girls after you approach them... I'll get to that in a bit...
Here is a guide for you to learn how to approach girls.
1. Don't hesitate... When you see the girl you want to approach... don't wait... approach directly... The less you wait the easier it gets.
2. Be confident... Have a confident body language, make eye contact, talk loudly,
3. Don't be needy... As you approach her don't stand with your body faced to her... it's needy... also try to always lead the conversation... you are the one that starts new topics...
I have found a way that makes it a lot easier to approach girls and also attracts them...
I have got great success after using this system...
If you want to know more about me.... Here's my story about how I learned how to approach girls:
It all started 6 months ago. I hadn’t had a girl for quite some time... and the girls I had in the past was usually not that good-looking...
I had problems approaching girls that I found attractive... I got nervous and started sweating and shaking... I made it into this big thing, instead of just being cool.
Most of the time I didn’t approach, I just stood there and looked at the girls with my buddies...
One day I decided to do something about this... I started reading about how to approach women on sites and I bought books on the topic.
At first I didn’t find anything that was easy to learn, easy to practice and natural to use... I kept on researching another week, then I found a system that some guys had used with great success. It was called
High Status Humor, basically it was about using a special kind of humor to attract women.
It sounded really great... because most of the guys i knew that had many girls were entertaining and funny.
I started using it, after 2 weeks I started getting results. It was easy to get attention without even approaching girls... most of the time they came to me just because I was fun, and used this humor with my friends.
At first I only got the attention and made girls laugh... but a week later I also started learning how to get girls attracted to me.
I started conversations with girls almost everywhere, and it wasn’t needy or creepy, it was so natural and it didn’t even feel like approaching.
When you are a fun high status guy... you can almost approach any girl without getting rejected.
Now I get new numbers almost every single day... I don’t have to work hard to get them. I only follow up on the really hot ones.
The past six months I've been dating 10 hot girls off and on. Instead of just taking advantage of every opportunity I just decided to date only the hottest girls.
Girls that I reject now... was girls that I found attractive 6 months ago ☺.
If you want to learn more about High Status Humor I recommend you to see this video.
Click here to see the High Status Humor video :)
You might feel scared to approach women you don’t know. You don’t know what reaction you will get therefore so yourself hold you back from doing anything. I was the same myself for many years… I rather hang out with my friends instead making a fool out of myself.
The fear of rejection disappeared when I stopped caring about if I got rejected or not. It was after I learned why girls have to reject guys… think about it. A hot girl probably get hit on 15-20 times a day, if she would be nice to all the guys and let them talk to her she would have a big group of guys following her, wanting to get into her pants.
So guys, if a girl rejects you don’t take it personal just approach another girl.
There are many ways to approach girls. The best way to start learning how to approach girls is by asking them for an opinion on something. For example: “My friend and I want to go abroad but we can agree where to go, so we need some advice from you girls… where can you recommend us to travel… and what’s good about that place?”
You can also ask for directions to some place… “Have you heard of a club called [clubs name], it’s suppose be a great night… but we don’t know where it is… have you guys heard of it?”
The more you try to approach the better you will get.
If you want to approach girls in the daytime make sure you go to a place where girls are not too stressed. I usually approach tourists because they are more open to meet new people. It’s also good for practice.
When you approach women at night they are prepared that guys will hit on them but in the daytime few guys have the guts to approach women. It’s really shows that you are confident to start talking to women during the daytime… the girl can often be more nervous than you are.
Either you go direct saying showing your intentions like “I had to come and say hi to you, I knew I would regret if I didn’t… I am John, what’s your name?”
You can also go indirect by asking the girls for directions, this is good for practice.